Thursday, January 31, 2013
Still looking for people to hang out with in the area and much hasn't happened yet. There is supposedly a group for Lolita, but it's closed end and I can't get in. One of the members said that was odd, but I don't think so. The person who owns the group on Facebook looks like a fake snob, but appearances can be deceiving. I'm just going to wait a few more days and then I asked her to make sure to nudge one of the owners and bring to their attention they've had a request to join for way too long. Very rude as hostesses and nothing Lolita like about them if you ask me.
Wednesday, January 30, 2013
It's Master's birthday today, so I thought I'd write a little post more towards him. I haven't been very nice lately do to being lonely and jealous. I sent Master his birthday card the other day, but I wasn't sure if he'd get it or not on time, so I gave him an e-card as well. The e-card had an iTunes credit attached to it and the actual card has cash in it. I know Master is working hard trying to peddle his cards every day, so I thought it would be nice if I give him a little money for his birthday to help him out. I did interrupt him while he was selling things after all and that probably had something to do with him only trading.
I'd bake Master a cake, but living this far away isn't very helpful and even if I sent the little booger on a plane, it would take ten hours to get there. I really am happy to be home on the west coast though. I just really wish that Master was here with me. Besides those, I got Master a gift on Gaia Online for his avatar and I promised him I'd be nice to people from now on and not call names, so no more ranting about his other woman unless I can keep it chill. So the slave shall learn to play nice and Master shall have a lovely birthday.
I joined a website called Meetup the other day and I'm hoping to find a few groups to join. I really need to get out there in the world and start meeting new people even if it's not for a full-on friendship. I just need to try and fill my schedule with happy things. I decided yesterday that I really do not want to take this job starting February. I want to be an entrepreneur more than anything in the world. I saw a Pokémon fabric print just a few minutes ago that sold me. I need to find a sewing class, learn the tips and tricks and start my own Lolita brand. It will be full of nothing but adorable characters and lovely classic and sweet prints. I'll think on the name soon, though I have a few in mind already.
So, I'm going to try to get my dream of entrepreneur this year. I'm going to start small by taking small business classes, economics, sewing class, jewelry craft, art class, photography workshops and culinary arts classes. Then I will be armed with the skills to start off with a small Lolita brand. Work my way into making a seasonal collection and sell sweets on the side. Then, have enough saved up for the most beautiful and unique café the world has ever known. Bakery shop counters lined with the most elegant paper lace and topped with decadent desserts, a gorgeous retro cash register, my seasons loveliest coordinates decorating the area, adorable women and girls dressed in the loveliest Lolita-esque waitress uniforms and a French style atmosphere for the entire place. It will be like a fairy tail and all I have to do to grab it is say nay to the pinned down work world and go out on my own. I have the smarts to learn and the funds to pay for classes and materials. This is going to be the grandest adventure ever.
Well, I'm off to take a little kitty nap seeing as I woke up at a decent time this morning and am now rather tired. I don't know why this happens, it just does. I can do absolutely nothing and I need a nap if I wake up in the morning. If I wake up at night though, I don't need a nap at all. So anyways, wish me luck in my business venture and wish my Master luck in peddling his wares.
Tuesday, January 29, 2013
I've had a good bit of time to think about a lot of things last night and this morning. A person's life really isn't worth much when you think about it unless you put value into them. Just the same, if you don't know that person or lose interest in them, it would be easier for you to get rid of them without a second thought. I'm sure now that Master wouldn't so much as notice if I stopped speaking with him or if I died. If anything he might find out a few months later when he gets annoyed that I haven't sent him money. That's all I'm around for after all. He just wants my money and to use me, I really have no value on my own besides that. It's not like we're really a couple anymore. I was just a foolish girl who hoped and prayed that he'd see the real me and how much I adored and needed him. Hoping all of this would cause him to want me again and come running to be with me and the little one. That maybe there would be a ray of hope in my darkness and that my spice hadn't faded.
As he said when I left last year, the words he spoke to me were out of reflex and no actual feelings behind them. Him saying "I love you" to me every night is more than likely just the same, not love, but reflex. I don't know why anything in my mind would have made me come to the conclusion they were anything more. My contract isn't to bind me to him, it's just there to keep me away from those whom he actually cares for. Why would anyone want to be with a bratty and arrogant little slave such as myself? It's not like I'm anything worth loving anyways...
Monday, January 28, 2013
Right now I'd have to say I feel like Holo. I've taken a long journey away from everyone and I may never see them again. I know I can be proud and arrogant like her as well, but right now I just want held. I ended up eating an entire bag of strawberry cream puffs while watching Spice and Wolf. I don't know why, but the series just makes me sad. The only reason I even started watching it tonight is because I've been listening to the song "She Wolf" by Sai over and over again. I'm just not in a right place in my mind right now.
Sunday, January 27, 2013
Master ended up getting online late, but he was probably asleep all day which means I'll either have to stay up until my eyes hurt to chat with him or just give up and never really talk to him much again. It's not like it would make a different to him if I fell off the face of the Earth. He'd actually probably be happier. I need someone to hold and love me, treating me like their little princess. Yes, I want to be a slave... just not the slave who's boxed off from everyone else and never thought of. I feel like I have no worth anymore.
Saturday, January 26, 2013
So Master and I stayed up too late and chatted for a bit. He is still really sick and I do feel bad for him, but his behavior is odd. We only say "I love you" before bed unless I'm feeling really down in the dumps that day and need to hear it, but he just said "love you" with no I. I thought it might be a typo, but we chatted again later and he said the same thing. Not only that, he said "ni night" which is my thing only. I kind of feel like he just parroted what I said seeing as he said what I did minus the I. Almost as if to impersonalize what he was saying to me. It wouldn't bother me so much if he had gotten offline when he said he was instead of still being on an hour later.
I just feel rather confused and unloved now. It's almost as if he just doesn't want to talk with me and only wants to talk with that other girl. He seems to make her so much more important than me that I'm starting to feel like the third wheel in my own relationship. I don't know if I should speak up about my feelings or if I should just fade out of the situation and give up. He already denied being online earlier the first time he did this even though I know the internet doesn't change pages for you. I just feel I have made the wrong choice in signing a contract with him now that I'm stuck to someone forever and still lonely do to their actions. It's like someone getting a pet and then deciding they can opt out of taking care of them and just pat them on the head once in a while.
Friday, January 25, 2013
As you can see, I'm rather mad today and have a lot of pent up anger. I'm doing my best not to annoy Master with it though seeing as he's still sick. I know he doesn't read this unless I prompt him to anyways, so if he does see this rant, he'll probably be better, a year older and in Florida by then. I know he isn't leaving until the weather warms up, but I'm already jealous of that girl. Everyone knows what I think of her by now. She's not pretty, she really isn't nice and she is a terrible person, but she gets Master living near her, probably with her if he wanted. I'm just some dumb toy 2000+ miles away that's been dropped on the floor and forgotten in terms of relationships. I just wish that everything went better for me. It always seems like the ones who are nice to everyone, give and don't ask for much back in return, are the ones who get stomped all over and treated like dirt.
Thursday, January 24, 2013
Master still hasn't trained me and I know he has no intention to now. I guess I'm just a stray with no hope for love or a firm Master who is willing to train, scold and praise me properly. I'm stuck in this contract though and I think that's the way he likes it. He's just using me for money to go be with his whore at this point, so I don't know what I saw in him. I thought he really meant that he wanted things to be the way they were before when we were younger, but I guess that was part of his ploy to harm me and the little one even further than he already has.
Wednesday, January 23, 2013
Tuesday, January 22, 2013
I think I'm going to work on a schedule here in a little bit as well as my taxes. I was really excited to do them until I remembered that Master owns all my possessions - including money - which means I might not even get to use any on myself. He's in a bad spot right now, so he might want it all for himself, though who knows... I at least wanted to let little one have a Disneyland birthday this year, but I can't do that with my normal wages. It would have been $3000 USD for the three of us back where we use to live. Now that we're so close, it's just a cheap bus trip and the park tickets for a day or two which should be more than $600 USD for everything even if Master came with us. I just can't wait to get back to where I use to live when I was younger so that I can get a yearly pass and go every single week. I'd be in heaven.
On a really good note though, I got my new dress in the mail today. It came with a whipped topping cup ring and earrings as well as a cake ring. The dress is light blue and super cute with a large ribbon in the front and neck ties. I'm really excited that it's machine washable too, so I don't have to worry about getting it dirty, though I'm going to try and keep it clean. I think I need a blouse to go with it seeing as my bust is... well, my boobs are too big and it shows lots of cleavage which isn't proper for Lolita.
Monday, January 21, 2013
So Master said the weirdest thing this morning when he got offline. He's apparently donating blood today which makes no sense seeing as he's super scared of needles. I was too, but I somehow grew out of the fear for the most part. I still don't like them though seeing as every nurse I've had sticks me wrong as I have super small veins. He said he was doing it for the money, which kind of makes more sense, but now I'm wondering why he's so desperate for money that he'd do something he hates. If he starts getting desperate enough, who knows what else he'll donate. If he starts donating sperm though, I'll just be like "bye bye, you just disowned little one" as that would be a violation of contract and a slap in the face to his child.
So now, I'm just sitting here thinking about what reasons he might need the cash. I don't want to jump to conclusions, but he did say that he wanted to go out of state to see his 'friends' in Florida for his birthday. He might be getting the money for that so he can see that trampy girl of his. If that's the case, I've lost all faith in him. Won't even get his blood checked for my sake so I'd know if I had to get a shot with little one or just to know his blood type, but he'll do it for cash to go see a tramp a days travel away.
Sunday, January 20, 2013
Neopets habitarium. It's all that really amuses me anymore...
Saturday, January 19, 2013
Friday, January 18, 2013
I'm probably going to bed really early because everyone is just being a jerk face and I've decided to give up on life. No one is worth my time, no one is worthy of being my friend and no one is worthy of having me. I'm too smart, pretty and good for anyone. I know I've said this before, but it's true and I'm getting fed up with the crap I take just for a chance at happy. I can't wait to get that new apartment so I can just be on my own and not have anyone to deal with or worry about but me and little one, who also is ungrateful as can be.
Thursday, January 17, 2013
There aren't even words to describe how today went. The little one was a total jerk, everyone was being so annoying and nothing went right. Dinner was horrible and so was the rest of the day. I just wanted to sleep the entire time because I felt sick and tired. I still feel horrible and the little one won't stop whining like a brat over nothing. Master isn't feeling himself right now either. He has to take medication and it's messing him up a bit and him sleeping all day long doesn't really help. Hopefully tomorrow is better.
Wednesday, January 16, 2013
Trying to look through all the apartments again to see i they're within walking distance. Most of the ones that are affordable are not in this area do to this mostly being people over 40 with no children or pets. It's kind of weird, which is why I want to move to the actual city area (about 20 minutes away from here by car) soon. The price ranger here is the big part that is killing me. There are probably four normal apartments that are a 10 minute walk from work, but they cost way too much for what little they provide and how small they are compared to the ones in the city for half the cost and more amenities.
Master hasn't spoken to me since yesterday morning and being me, I'm starting to worry a little bit. I was afraid for myself when I went in for dental care because I know that it's an easy way to die if they mess up. I never really bothered to be all "oh I hope you'll be alright" with Master though because I just wanted him to get help so badly. If he ended up getting hurt because of it, I'll feel really really bad. Especially since I forgot to tell him to drive safety before leaving. I was too busy rambling about my own life.
On another note, I had a really really weird dream last night. It was about me going to visit Master where he lives and it seemed to be a few years into the future. I was bad mouthing him to everyone I met because he didn't keep up his end of a bargain and refused to be loyal. He'd gone to meet his gal pal for his birthday like planned, ended up getting her pregnant and had a host of problems to deal with. He still was unemployed, living with his family and bumming off people with no intentions of paying them back. The weirdest part was somehow we ended up playing some video game together on his new game system. He was playing with one of his guy friends and one of my ex-girl friends and I asked if I could play. They all seemed like they didn't want me to seeing as I'd slow them down somehow. Master ended up letting me and we played. The game was rather odd and I don't think I've seen it before in real life, but the dream gave me a game idea at least.
Tuesday, January 15, 2013
Alright, so today has been a rather good day so far even though I haven't done more than text Master once or twice. I've done a few other things today though and that makes me happy. I showered and got all nice and sparkle sparkle besides shaving the legs. I'll do that tomorrow morning though and touch up everything else. I also got a few things taken care of and am now looking more into my interests and getting ready to live on my own. My orientation is supposed to be on this Saturday and I applied for another job today. If I get both, I'll have more than enough money to get a decent apartment.
As you can see on the title, I updated my Samsung phone today and it gave me lots of new options, it's a prettier interface too. Now I can switch between different keyboards and type / text to people in other languages. No Japanese or Chinese sadly, though Korean is just spiffy. I even got to go to the asian, Lee Lee Supermarket today for the first time. It's almost as big as a normal store and has sooo much delicious food from different Asian countries. I thought I was going to spend $100 USD on how much I bought, but to my wonderful surprise it all came out to around $65 USD instead. I even found all of my favorite snacks in the whole wide world like daifuku and melon-pan.
My mother decided to come with me and look around a bit and she was acting like some foreigner in another country. It was really funny to watch and I had to read some of the packaging for her. I ended up convincing her to buy some of the ready noodles instead of dry and she cooked dinner for me. It was pretty decent for someone who doesn't know what they're doing, though not spicy enough.
I'm starting a Vlog in addition to my blogs here soon. I think I'm cute enough to do so now, which is odd since I've aged since I wanted to start one. I don't look any older though, which makes me rather happy. I'd be happy to be 40 and still look like a young girl and I'm sure Master would be happy too. I'm not sure what to start it on. There is just so much I love to do and talk about. I might make multiple ones like some YouTubers have now. I would really like to do one about Lolita and Japanese food though.
Monday, January 14, 2013
Sunday, January 13, 2013
So I do tend to say a lot of things that are right in the moment - anger filled things - because of something that I don't like that I should have thought over before speaking on. Like yes, I'm horribly angry when Master does anything with another female and even slightly jealous because they're stealing a bit of his attention away from me when I want to be the only female getting any attention. So what do I do instead of thinking things over? I rant. Why? Because honestly, it makes me feel a little better. I know I'm prettier, smarter, funnier and better in every way imaginable than any of his girl friends. So why do I get jealous? Because someone dumb, ugly and worthless is getting Master's time when they don't even deserve a millisecond.
Oh a happier note, I sprained my hand do to the little one being a ruffian. Yes, that is happier than the rest of my life at the moment. Sad, isn't it?
Saturday, January 12, 2013
Master didn't chat with me at all yesterday besides apologizing, half-heartily, that he only was on for a few seconds. He could have at least said hello and told me why he's so busy because I was online when he got on and he completely ignored me, probably in favor of his slut. I'm sick of people and how fake they are. If you're not going to be truthful with me, I don't want you around. I also noticed Master blocked me from seeing three of his pictures on his Facebook, so I'm guessing they're of something he doesn't want me to see, probably him all over a girl. I'm too pretty for anyone anyways, I don't know why I hurt myself over things that aren't even worth my time of day.
I've been keeping up with my other blogs for the most part and I've been following the small amount of rules I've been left with, if they mean anything anymore. I'm sure now that Master has stopped reading my blog and he probably will never give me any assignments because he just doesn't care and he's still a slacker like he always has been when it comes to our relationship. I just feel lost and alone and all the stress I have to deal with on my own is making things worse for me.
Friday, January 11, 2013
I decided I have to really kick myself into gear now or I'm going to have lots of issues down the road, like losing Master to a much uglier and not-so-nice woman. I've gone back to just having protein shakes for two meals, light snacks and I'll think of something balanced before dinner comes around. I've kept up on shaving and am silky smooth and proud of myself. My hygiene is getting a lot better as well and I hope that if I get myself on a routine that I'll be picture perfect for my Master - if I have any chance of winning left and he doesn't sleep with the other woman here in two weeks.
I've decided to abandon all of my old friends do to 1) them being flakes when I need them and 2) them putting all their problems on me. Don't get me wrong, I love helping people out... it's just when you decide to become buddy-buddy with the one person I hate and then try to make me do things for you, like spend a boat load of money to go to your wedding in another state after you haven't talked to me for a month... yeah no. Just ask Master's new brat to be your bridesmaid instead since you losers are friends now. I never really liked dealing with you and your copy-cat behavior anyways and I'm done with all this drama. Friends are worthless, I just want to be on my own with my ZomZom and never have to speak with anyone else ever again. Master can even stop chatting with me if he wants, he has someone else anyways.
Thursday, January 10, 2013
Master has been really really nice to me and spends lots of time roleplaying with me and doing some light chatting, but I still feel lonely. He even has been a bit lovey and calls me by my nickname instead of just "my dear", though he's only on at night and I end up passing out while talking to him. I have to get up around six to seven in the morning and talking to him until four in the morning every morning isn't doable anymore. I'll be lucky if I even get to speak with him for a few minutes this evening seeing as it's not even four and I'm already tired as can be. Though it has been a rather gloomy day.
I just miss my Master so much and I can't wait to be in his arms again. It's another fifty days until the obedience game is over and I feel as time goes by, I just feel worse and worse and am afraid of messing up more and more. I just need to try and cheer up, but I can't. Every night even saying one word to Master makes me feel like crying and I want to be in his arms so bad.
Wednesday, January 9, 2013
I honestly would forget my butt if it wasn't attached. I need to call my old work today and get them to transfer my W-2 to my new address. I'm just so afraid of talking to my old boss for some reason because of the situation I left on. Master wouldn't even stay in the house with me, let alone take me to work and I never knew where he was to watch the little one. It was just a really bad situation and I should have probably taken one of my male friends offers on moving in with them, but I love Master and I don't cheat like he does.
Tuesday, January 8, 2013
Even after I start my new job, I'm only making $7.80 an hour, which is above minimum wage, but still. If it was full-time, I'd have no issue paying for a place, though with my chances I'll be working just enough to get $700 a month and the only place I can think of that is $280 or less is a dumpster or cardboard box on the street because that's how much I'll have to pay for loitering charges. If people were actually still human and not mindless working machines, they could give me a chance. I'd show them that my head for money could easily pay rent with two-thirds my income and I'd still be on my feet.
If I win, I'll at least have Master to help me pay for rent after that. Then we'd have just about double the income and be able to meet the horrible two-and-half times income requirement.
Monday, January 7, 2013
Tomorrow I shall be busy again because everything I didn't finish today, I have to do later. I at least cleaned the entire bathroom and remembered that I'm supposed to eat something today. No, my food log isn't empty because I'm forgetful of writing it down. It's empty because I'm forgetful of eating. If someone didn't talk about food, I honestly think I wouldn't eat until I noticed I was dying from hypoglycemia. Food and me... we went our separate ways. I never really liked it to begin with, but I ate it because it was there and I was depressed and hated my life. I still don't care much for my life and not having a job is making me angry as I would really like to buy myself some new clothing, but can't.
Now I just have to hope I get more than one thing on my list of to-do's done or I'm going to be in hot water by the end of the week. I think I'm going to go for school and services next seeing as I managed to get my state ID and I'm the one who really needs it. Speaking of identification, I found my old passport from when I lived in China for a while when I was younger. It's really neat to look at old visas and whatnot and see how much you've changed. Mine expired in 2009, so obviously it was from 1999 and I was just a kid. I looked adorable with my hair, though I do adore this new darker hair just as much. I need to go and get myself a new passport later so that I can travel again.
Sunday, January 6, 2013
I'm not sure if I'm even going to be able to sleep do to being so stressed, but I should probably head off around midnight or so... I don't want to though. Master just woke up a little bit ago as well, so it wouldn't be any fun if I only got to chat with him for a bit before I went to bed. Though he doesn't seem very chatty anyways, so it might be best. I've at least managed to make him happy in the last day. I sent him a bunch of pictures of me and my progress.
Saturday, January 5, 2013
Master was nice enough to talk to me from last night until a bit after the sun came up. The little one took a nap while I was out today, so no nap for me. I really want one though and am fighting rather hard to stay up for another hour so that I can go to bed at a decent time. I'm not sure if that will happen though with how much my body keeps trying to fall asleep. I want to stay up and chat with Master... I just don't know if I can though.
Friday, January 4, 2013
Master was really nice today, he stayed up with me all day even though he had been up earlier and chatted. He even called me a good girl, loyal and obedient. I know that might seem horrid to some people being called words you'd say to a pet, bu that's what I am. Well, I'm his slave, but being called things you'd call a pet just makes me happier seeing as it's more affectionate. He really is a very loving Master when he wants to be even though I say otherwise. I figured he'd just ask if the little one was in the car or something like that, but he didn't.
I took a nap two or three times tonight because I kept passing out. I really can't help it though, I feel woozy and really confused after the happenings of today. I also need to hurry up and look for my social security card so that I can go to orientation for work tomorrow. If I can't find that, then I'm just going to be even more messed over than I already am for not having a state ID. Well, I have one, it's just for a different state though and I need to go on Monday and get my state ID and food handlers card before work.
Thursday, January 3, 2013
So, lots of cleaning, past my breaking point of stress and Master wasn't online all day today, not even for a minute. He messaged me back almost half-a-day ago, but I know he probably won't even notice I texted him back and if he does, he won't reply or he will in a day or so if I don't get online. I'm just really stressed and needed someone to talk to and of course whenever that happens, he is never there for me. Master has actually only been there for me being stressed / sick once, and no, that wasn't when my father passed. He just was awkward and didn't even comfort me when that happened. Overall, I'd have to say he is really really bad at being a decent person of any kind, though I shouldn't say those things about my Master, even if they are true. He's just so self-servicing that he forgets I have emotional needs too.
So, I have to go in to work tomorrow and fill out papers. I got my uniform today and found at checkout that my card was missing. I really need to use it for ten transactions this month and I'm going to go insane if I have to pay a fee for not using it. So, I guess I'm going to have to think of some needs that are really tiny in cost and just purchase one item per transaction. Here is to hoping tomorrow is a better day...
Wednesday, January 2, 2013
I am beyond exhausted today. I slept for about five hours, laid in bed for an extra hour-and-a-half and still had absolutely no desire to move. I didn't even really have breakfast this morning because I was too lazy to eat anything and yes, most the food I have doesn't need cooked anyways. I'm too lazy to even open my mouth to eat let alone talk to anyone. The only times I've even said anything were to spout a few profanities which I'm keeping track of so I can try to lessen that each day. Needless to say, another day gone by and I did not go shopping for my work pants. I don't like the idea of wearing men's clothing let alone wearing pants, so this is just a dreaded shopping trip and I'm not going to make it on a day I feel lazy.
Master should wake up soon (yes, we went to bed at a horrible time this morning) so that I can chat with him online. Though, if he doesn't get on in the next hour, I think I'm going to take another nap. I'm at the very least getting my bucket list items done, though I'm too lazy to do anything besides that. I decided for sure that this month is not the month to try new foods because I'm not hungry in the least. That and I don't like grocery shopping without Master, so I avoid it the best I can when not living with him. The little one has plenty to eat and is pretty much the only one doing any eating today.
I've been staring at my drawing board for most of the time that I've been up, trying to think if I should pack it or not. The only things I'm leaving unpacked are things that are a need, a want that I use at least twice a week and items that could help me get cash. If I wasn't so lazy today, I might be able to draw some artwork to put up as an example for people to commission me. I'm too lazy to do even that right now too. The only reason I'm even typing up an entry right now because moving my fingers on a laptop keyboard takes next to no effort, but sadly my fingers are getting lazy too. So all I have to report today is that I was bad and looked at some images I shouldn't have do to a flaw in my browser's block system, so now I have to figure out how to block bad images on BlogLovin because apparently parental block doesn't pick up the images on there as pornography even though it is. I also ended up touching myself again. Not a great way to start out the new year. *tisk tisk*
Tuesday, January 1, 2013
I'll make sure to clean up my living space, take care of myself and check out the words of the day I have to go over and hopefully learn something new. I have a spare journal I've been using since I moved and I think it's time I start filling it up with little notes and useful things. I also need to check my bank account and see when I have to make ten purchases by. It's the only way to keep my account from being charged besides keeping a high balance, which I really can't do.
So, I hope everyone has a wonderful new year and gets their resolutions in order! I'm wishing all of you the best for this year and hope that every single one of you gets to do exactly what you want. Remember never to let anyone hold you back (unless what you want is utterly stupid) and do your best with what you have. I'm going to be starting a second blog in addition to this one here in the coming month. I do not know if it will be a daily, every other day or weekly thing yet, but I will of course post when it happens. I also added all of my favorite sozai collections to the right side of my blog as you can see. So, go out there and have a great year! I'm going to get some well deserved rest. Follow my blog with Bloglovin